Is it easy to be a teenager? Research work in social studies, pupils of the 8th grade MAOU "Kalinovskaya secondary school" Bubenshchikova Daria Supervisor: teacher of social studies Karbovskaya Tamara Borisovna
The urgency of the problem. Adolescence is anxiety: "What if I am not like everyone else?" and horror: “What if I am like everyone else?” Evgeny Vinokurov The sphere of social science is very extensive and interesting; it contains many unsolved questions, mysterious and inexplicable phenomena. Why was it the problem of adolescence that attracted me? and children. Is it easy to be a teenager? This question is answered differently by adolescents and adults. I wanted to understand why the points of view of my peers, parents and teachers are so contradictory.
Objectives of the research: - to investigate the characteristics of adolescence, - to show the complex and contradictory nature of this period, its decisive influence on human development, his subsequent life.
Objectives of the research: I want to show how age characteristics affect the behavior of a teenager and his self-esteem; explore the characteristics of adolescence, show the complex and contradictory nature of this period
Object of research: adolescents Subject of research (hypothesis): the interdependence between the characteristics of adolescence and the adolescent's attitude to himself, and his relationship with adults and peers Choice of subjects: students 12-15 years old (grades 7-9), 16-17 years (10- Grade 11), school teachers, parents of my classmates, grade 8 students
Research methods: I conducted at school: Sociological survey among schoolchildren in grades 7-11 Blitz-survey of teachers, parents, offering to answer the question: “Is it easy to be a teenager? Why?"
Internet resources Federal portal "Social, humanitarian and political education" http: // www. humanities. edu. ru / Great encyclopedic and historical dictionaries on-line http://www.edic.ru Wiki Knowledge: hypertext electronic encyclopedia http://www.wikiznanie.ru Wikipedia: free multilingual encyclopedia http: // ru. wikipedia. org Mega-encyclopedia of the portal "Cyril and Methodius" http: // www. megabook. ru Resource support: Literature: "The World of Childhood: Teenager" edited by A.G. Khripkova. It addresses many of the problems of adolescence, this book helped me understand the age characteristics of adolescents Social studies. Textbook for grade 7, A.I. Kravchenko, E.A. Pevtsova.
What age is considered adolescent? Adolescence is a special and very important age for the further development of a personality. At this time, there is a significant restructuring of the adolescent's body. This is a period of turbulent and at the same time uneven physical development... For adolescence, irritability and irascibility are characteristic. Physiological age limits are from 10 to 15 years.
Adolescence Minors (6-14 years old) Minors (14-18 years old) Legal age limits.
Adolescence is considered a transitional period: a teenager belongs partly to the group of children, and partly to the group of adults. In some cases, adolescents are treated like children, while in others they are treated like adults. The border between the two worlds.
Physiological changes Height Weight Body proportions Puberty
Psychological changes Personal instability Propensity to take risks Striving for independence, self-reliance Attraction to the other sex Egocentrism
Factors influencing the formation of personality Society Family School Street
Some childish forms of behavior are no longer acceptable. At the same time, adult forms of behavior are not yet allowed or are allowed, but are not familiar to him. He strives to become an adult as soon as possible, but he still does not know how to solve complex and responsible tasks that adults can handle. Duality of behavior.
"Difficult life."
Adolescent problems Drinking alcohol Smoking Drug addiction Loneliness Suicide attempts Conflicts with parents
Total respondents: Students: 57 Parents: 22 Teachers: 15 Poll: "Is it easy to be a teenager?"
Comparative survey data.
Conclusions. The results of the study allow us to draw the following conclusions: 1) teenage years is an important stage in the development of a personality, this is the time of transition from childhood to adulthood, 2) the changes that occur at this time affect his worldview, behavior, attitude towards himself, other people, to life, 3) because of how adolescents decide their problems, how they develop relationships with peers, parents, teachers, their assessment of the problem "Is it easy to be a teenager?" pupils in grades 10-11, 34% of parents But this is a necessary period in life, without which there is no growing up.
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Youth is a state of mind, a feeling with which many people live in our world, something that makes us take risks, go forward and not stop there.
There is no clear boundary that determines whether a person is young or not, because at 40 you can remain a naive child who believes in miracles and thirsts for magic, but you can already have a strong character at 18, which is inherent, first of all, to an adult, experienced person.
To the question "Is it easy to be young?" I will confidently answer: "No, it is not easy." And there are many reasons for this: the eternal conflict of fathers and children, constant internal contradictions, the search for oneself in this vast world.
It is sometimes very difficult for a young man who is maximalist to the bone to find mutual language with parents. The reason for the quarrel can be both different ideals, and their absence. It is difficult for us to take the side of our parents, since they sometimes do not understand or do not try to understand us ... This is the most difficult thing!
The search for ourselves constantly pushes us to rash actions, which we then often have to regret.
Youth is also the fear of entering adult life, fear of risk and loss, which makes us weaker and prevents us from realizing our potential. In adolescence, there is an increasing desire to break away from reality, plunge into a world of fantasies, bright colors, where problems will be absent ... All this speaks of the crisis of the younger generation. Is it so easy to be young? I asked this question to passers-by of different ages, whom I met on the streets of Kachkanar.
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Sonya, 15 years old
Yes Easy. There are no serious problems. It is easier for us, teenagers, than for adults, respectable people. We also have problems that we face every day. But this is nonsense.
It is at this time that it is easy to make real friends who remain by your side for life, it is easy to start a relationship. Easy to love, easy to forgive. And you know that there are parents who will always help you.
Nastya, 17 years old
Yes and no. Young people have no particular problems. Every day something happens to us. Studying is a problem, a quarrel with friends is a problem, and so you can list endlessly. We teenagers can make a problem out of anything, but in general life is wonderful for us!
Mark, 14 years old
No, it's not easy. Our main problem is the lack of time. It is especially difficult for us - after all, youth is the period when our future is being decided. Career and future life depends on education. Or you will sweep the yards, or get a job in a decent company. The choice is only yours. It is very difficult to be able to make decisions. True, the only problem that I constantly face so far is the lack of time. Due to the workload at school, there is not always time for personal affairs.
Vova, 14 years old
Yes Easy. At least I have no difficulties yet. It's easy to be young. After all, only at this time can you afford what adult aunts and uncles cannot. You are still very young and the whole world is open in front of you, all doors just swing open in front of you! You can do what you want, do whatever you want, without thinking about the consequences.
Sasha, 14 years old
No. Hard. the main problem- lack of money. Young people today spend a lot of pocket money on chips, crackers and other nonsense. Today, there is nowhere without pocket money, but parents do not always give enough money. Often you simply cannot afford a lot. And getting a job for a 14-year-old teenager is something of a fantasy.
Alexandra Vasilievna, 70 years old
It's difficult for the young now. Youth is the most important period in the life of every person. What he will be able to achieve at this time, then he will represent himself in subsequent life stages. Much depends on the goal that the young man sets for himself, and if he achieves it, then everything will work out for him in life. And if there is no goal, then such a person, of course, has a very simple life. It is always difficult to be educated, well-mannered, cultured. But a person who doesn't give a damn about everything is easy at all times. It is very easy for such people to live.
Hydrangea, 19 years old
I have no definite answer to this question. What problems do we face in life? This is employment and lack of earnings, sometimes conflicts with parents, this is education and study. They say that every person is the blacksmith of his own happiness. But at the same time, we have the opportunity to be carefree. The only thing I would like to wish the guys - do not rush to get older!
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Is it hard to be a teenager?
Fucking hard. For example, I could not be one - I immediately became an adult - I started making money, supporting my family ...
It's easier, of course.
Teens, moan less. Nobody owes you anything. Even in besieged Leningrad, you received rations not on children's cards, but on dependent ones (the smallest of the entire assortment of cards). So forget the imported word "teenagers", forget the major word "teenagers", and remember the native Russian - "dependents" and let's tie it up with snot - learn and go to earn a living .... Leeches on the parent's neck, damn it.-
Yes, if you compare with a teenager with an adult, then the most difficult thing is to be a teenager, but because he does not have enough life experience, it is difficult to choose a profession, to find a common language with the elders, but on the other hand, the moral side, as it were, the teenager should feel happier, he has not yet departed from childhood, and in general this is a transitional age when a teenager departs from childhood and goes into adulthood ... Yes, at this time we find ourselves friends who remain for life, we quarrel say goodbye, it is easier for us to put up with a friend than with an adult , this is the time when we develop feelings, when new feelings, opinions, thoughts, fantasies appear in an adult, I think that we should not worry so much, over enjoying the moments and life, then that it is difficult to live this is already a problem in the state, we have inflated prices , a small scholarship, expensive travel, clothes are expensive, so young people need at least thirty thousand rubles a month to have enough for everything and live happily ... yes, we are trying to find any way to earn money and find, with From my point of view, these are the best years, when you study at school, in universities, this is all you need for happiness, then all the years you will feed your family, so I don’t think that it is easy for the young ...
It's awfully difficult for me, starting from the 9th grade, more and more debts, cruel problems with the school - this is, given that I am good, the parent starts firing for what I use, and they are severely punished, to the point that they already want to run away from home, they want to shoot themselves, do away with yourself, and whoever has the same state, hold on, the main thing is to hold on, everything will pass and become normal and form ...
The parent starts to shoot for what I use,
Let me know what you are using? And is it not the use of something that affects the difficulties in learning?
Maxim It's awfully difficult for me, starting from the 9th grade
And you try to live on your own, get a job, rent an apartment,
my, wash, cook the food, go shopping in search of cheaper ones, since you have debts. And you will immediately understand how it became AFIGENTLY EASIER for you.He won't understand yet. And he will begin to live independently, and there is no going anywhere. He will still have freebies and fun at the university or at the college-school, there it is already easier with parents in terms of drinking and smoking, but you can make such jambs that then you will pay your whole life. And then work, home, family, problems, lack of time and money always, understanding of their responsibility for others.
what's the difference what the name is? for me, the teenager is very much even nothing
but being a teenager is not difficult, at least while you are studying at school, and there is a lot of free time, and you can find money if you want, but then it’s difficult, probably, you need to study and earn money to study
Is it hard to be a teenager?
I don’t know, I immediately got up into adulthood. We needed money - "... tear off your ... and go to work!" I said to myself. And I went to earn money (my ancestors were too lazy to beg for pocket money).
I think every age has its own problems and joys. Whoever thinks that it’s difficult for young people - it’s not sugar for adults either, when money is already needed not just for crackers, but for life, when he is responsible for everything, and there is even less time. It is better to think about the pros, while there is freedom, while you can walk and have fun with friends, do dirty tricks at school. And then the time will come and become adults - I think this is not disgusting.
Maksim It's awfully difficult for me, starting from the 9th grade
my, wash, cook the food, go shopping in search of cheaper ones, since you have debts. And you will immediately understand how you feel IT'S AFHICALLY EASY.
Yushan
He will understand Yushan, he will understand. When they are kicked out of the house, he will understand how IT'S AFHICALLY EASY.
Kapets everything has become difficult for me since 7th grade
There is no universal recipe for adolescence to be normal. It all depends on your interests, preferences and biases. All adolescents experience a huge variety of emotions and impressions: they join or avoid different companies, they feel alienated from their peers or, conversely, they are involved, they are either happy or sad, and add here the changes that occur to the body. You may crave to be accepted into a group of peers: about the same age, level, and interests. Even those teenagers who behave like strangers, and in every possible way emphasize their strangeness and dissimilarity, still have close-minded friends. And it's okay to feel that something is wrong with you. We all want to be a part of something, but that doesn't mean you have to become a mindless robot with an irresistible urge to conform. Embrace all your inner weirdness and become your true self. This is fine. Read the first step for more details.
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Children have a huge number of new problems. Both girls and boys. They can be both individual and general. What are these problems?
About problems
When raising a teenage child, not all parents understand that their children have quite a few problems. And you just have to remember your childhood and the problems that arose in the same period. What uncomfortable situations can arise with? This is communication, and appearance, and the desire to do what you love. The behavior of adolescents also leaves much to be desired. And, of course, the lack of understanding on the part of the adults of the thin soul of the grown-up child.
Problem 1: appearance
When asked whether it is easy to be a teenager, adults should remember what happens to their child's body during such a period. Girls begin to actively grow their breasts, and the first menstruation appears (and this is all accompanied by hormonal bursts and imbalances), boys begin to noticeably grow up, and they also have certain problems with the formation of the reproductive system of the body. In addition, the child's face can be covered with terrible acne, which is not so easy to get rid of. All this, both individually and in combination, creates a huge number of
Problem 2: communication
Is it easy to be a teenager if others don't understand you? The question itself is rhetorical. Very often at this age, children have problems with communication not only with their peers, but also with their own parents. Misunderstanding on the part of adults and rejection of certain things are far from full list all the troubles. Therefore, very often teenage children begin to look for companions and like-thinkers on the side, forgetting that it is best to consult with their own parents on all issues. This is how teenagers get into bad companies.
Problem 3: goals and lifestyle
Is it easy to be a teenager if your parents are trying to solve all the questions for you? The question also does not require an answer. During this period, children may develop new desires, goals and aspirations that may not be entirely clear to adults. On this basis, a huge number of conflict situations and troubles often arise. The child needs to be allowed to be himself and to support him in any situation.
Problem 4: freedom
Is it easy to be a teenager when parents are still trying to limit everything? The problem with today's children is that they are too independent. And parents often cannot understand this and still try to protect the child from certain situations. You need to give the teenager freedom of action, the opportunity to independently solve their own problems. Only then will the child feel like an adult and act like an adult.
Problem 5: bad habits
Life as a teenager is not easy. That is why children often try to get rid of these problems by drinking a bottle of beer - and life seems more fun. What should parents do to prevent this from happening? The first is to set the right example. If parents drink, why shouldn't a teenager do the same? Children start smoking as a sign of protest, this should also be taken into account. And if a child escapes from reality into the virtual world, then parents need to try to change reality and do everything to make life better and more interesting than on the Internet.
